In poker, the definitive bet is going “all in”. In a game of
chess, the winning move is “check mate”. In a relationship, the ultimate
scenario is surrendering to love. But unlike poker, unlike chess, love is
infinitely more complicated and actually begins
with the seemingly final outcome. The thing with love is that the real work
begins after it is actually declared. When you love someone and decide to share
your life with them – in marriage, in living together or simply
in love – you have to be present every day. It’s being in the now and being
involved in the everyday. It is the giving of oneself and being open to receiving
what the other person has to give.
It’s easy to say “I love you” but to really love someone –
well, that’s just it. It’s not saying the words or believing you can’t live without the other person. No,
it is the complete surrender of oneself and the willingness to accept and live
in complete surrender.
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