My college transcripts are 20 years old. I attended a highly regarded PAC 10 school and received a bachelor’s degree in English. I should have gone on to higher education right then and there but decided instead to pursue my MRS. Degree instead. Oh hindsight. I wish someone had said to me when I was in college, “Work harder. Stop worrying about how much fun you need to be having, your future depends on it.” If I had been given this advice and actually listened, heeded it to be precise, I would not be in the predicament I find myself in today.
I spent high school studying and working towards getting into that prestigious college. Unfortunately, once I got there, I decided to coast through instead of continuing the work I had begun and following through with my dreams. I got married, had kids, and drifted into something resembling a career. Now here I am 19 years later, divorced, in a depressed economy and looking for what to do next. My plan was, still is, to get some kind of higher education – Law Degree, Masters Degree something. My problem – my college gpa. I simply had a little too much fun and then decided I needed a break that turned into a permanent hiatus. It has come back to haunt me with a vengeance! For such a smart girl I’ve managed to do dumb pretty well. So many of my future plans hinge upon getting an advanced degree and I am on that line of maybe yes, maybe no. Schools don’t always look at the individual as a person but more as a bunch of numbers that will succeed in their programs and further their reputation. I will have to hope that my professional experience and my intellectual (ahem) prowess will speak for themselves.
Mariela, nothing is lost. You're in just the right place. Look at Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Larry Ellison -- all tremendously successful and wealthy, but none have college degrees. It's about finding your life purpose. You may like the new post on my blog - http://suzannealexandra.blogspot.com.
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